Legendary Father
Scared of becoming a Father when you still feel like a kid yourself?
You have questions and we have a Map with answers.
Did you know 66% of Marriages start to Fail after having a child?
Having a child will change the way you think, will change your relationship and your (and her) identity.
Like any road trip, it's the smart ones who prepare for the journey by having a clear map, knowing their stop-overs, and ensuring they have the right tools.
Do you know what she is telling her girlfriends?
Have more confidence and be ready for what is about to happen?
Have the know-how to support her?
Feel less overwhelmed and confused?
Know how to anticipate your partner AND the baby's needs?
Have planning tools for raising a child beyond the basics?
A Map can save your Family...
Using the #LegendaryFather Map, we will go through 9 milestone steps over the course of 9 weeks
(*up to 12 if you need a little more time).
We will focus on what no one is talking about!
You will be given links to tons of resources, from baby items to finances, and so much more!
The LegendaryFather Course...
is a fundamental key to transforming yourself into a Father and Supportive Partner
This is not a map about "what to expect" and how to change a diaper.
What You will get:
- Weekly video/audio sessions that give you *private *quick and *simple to-do's so you don't waste time, energy and worry
- E-mail support within 24 hours to answer any lingering questions and thoughts
- Access to links, resources and even conversation starters
I thought I was supposed to prepare for the baby, but...
Because I didn't know and prepare, my marriage almost crashed and burned, and we would have become just another statistic.
I learned the hard way and dug deep to learn the skills that I am going to teach you so you are ready for what no one talks about. Every program and boot camp takes you through the steps of how to change diapers, what to do if your baby is crying, etc. And these are wonderful skills to learn...
What none of these programs do is take you though the 9 step #LegendaryFather Map to ensure your relationship with your partner is a supportive one leading up the birth of your baby and navigating the dreaded first year.
Only the #LegendaryFather Map prepares you by teaching you about:
- Vision
- Mindset
- Tools and Resources
- How to anticipate her (and the baby's) needs
- How to understand and support her journey
- and more!
He Said vs. She Said
I did some market research on what moms feel about fathers. Do you want to know what the women said?
Avoid the Mistakes that Cost 67% of Marriages their Happiness....
Research shows:
- Approximately two-thirds of couples find that the quality of their relationship declines within five years of the birth of a first child. 13% of marriages end in divorce - Relationship Research Institute in Seattle
- 40% of children in America are growing up without a father in their life.
- 67% of couples report being unhappy in their relationship in the first two years after their child is born.
Why?
You will leave behind a legacy as a parent, the question is, what kind?
How will having a child change your relationship with your partner?
What will your son or daughter say about you 10, 20, 50 years from now?
How?
77% of marriages suffer after having a baby because most men think they are supposed to focus on the baby. I cannot express to you how much time and confusion you'll have if you don't invest the time in supporting her journey.
What?
Have you noticed how many adults have "daddy issues"? Like taking a trip, the best way to travel is to have guides, ensure you know the *must see* stops, and have a clear map to success.
The #LegendaryFather Map is the first of its kind solution.
You can't possibly know what to expect when things are unexpected...
Having a child is LIFE-CHANGING.
It will change:
- the way you think
- every decision you make
- change your relationship
- who you and your partner are at your core
- the way you view the world.
Like any road trip, it's the smart ones who prepare for the journey by having a clear map, knowing their stop-overs, ensuring they have the right tools, and have taken the steps to ensure they are prepared for the journey.
Let's talk about how I can help you...
"My life has changed beyond measure and I owe much of that to you."
A. Cooke
Business Manager, HP Enterprise
Parents must work together as a team to raise their child...
The way you work together during times of stress, the way you react to situations, the way you show love to one another, the way you make decisions together, all become a model for your child.
Your child will understand how to develop relationships based on the model of how you and your partner interact together...
When parents aren't a team, your child will:
- start playing one against another (mom says no, and then asks dad)
- have trouble understanding how to develop relationships
- struggle with stressful situations and will act out
- will seek attention in various ways including tantrums, misbehaving, etc...
The #LegendaryFather Map includes learning how to work together to create a strong bond with one another and create a team that your child will use as a model for successful relationships growing up.
This is done through learning about:
- the decisions that will need to be made in the first few years including how to pick a pediatrician, bedtime routines, etc.
- shared decision making
- supporting one another's decisions
- how to handle other people's "suggestions"
- balancing time with the baby and work schedules
- monetary decisions- what needs to be bought and when...
I have spent over two decades working with children and parents. One of the biggest challenges I have come across is helping parents get past their own fears, needs and story that is often shaping their children in a negative way.
You see, even though we become parents, we are still simply people trying to figure it all out. We don't always know the right decisions to make, or how to make them, so we tend to default to our own story and use the fears and desires we have created for ourselves and impose them on our children (HINT: This also happened with your parents, to you).
As a result, many of our habits and hang-ups become our children's - you see the cycle doesn't end unless we make conscious changes to ourselves which as a result effect our children.
When working with expecting parents I focus on three main factors:
- Listen
- Shift
- Grow and Support
By following this path, I am able to help others see the story they have created for themselves, and then new perspectives. In other words, how would your life look if we looked at it from a different angle? Once you are able to see the possibilities, we are then able to focus on how we can grow to get ourselves to where we want and need to be in life! The resulting outcome is more happiness, excitement and in many cases security, which then sets a new path for your child.
Invest in Your Future
You spent thousands on a car. You spend tens of thousands on an education. You spend Hundreds of thousands on your house. What is your family worth?
One Transformational Key...
is understanding your partner. The relationship you have with your partner will effect your child forever.
Based on years of research and over a hundred interviews with new and pregnant moms, as well as my own experience, you will learn exactly what a new mom, and moms in general, need in order to feel secure as they transition to motherhood.
Buy Now"As a successful woman, we feel a lot of shame and guilt about asking for help especially if we are used to standing on our own two feet. All of a sudden, we NEED help! But I don't want to tell him what to do."
Petra E.
Singer, Vocal Coach
This course is FOR YOU if...
- You are feeling slightly nervous about becoming a parent and want a little more certainty
- You wonder what else you can do to prepare for life as a parent
- You love your partner enough to ensure you are going to keep your relationship as a focus in your life
- You like the idea of a clear step by step map that can guide you that gives you resources and information at your finger tips
You might NOT be a good fit if...
- You feel doing the basics are enough
- You feel you'll figure it out- how hard could it be?
- You have no problem operating on very few hours of sleep and going about your life without any frustration
- You have the ability to hire help and you plan to just "check-in" as a parent
